a SiLlY sIdE oF lOvE!!!!


Crushes…as in infatuation, liking, fancy, fantasy…everyone in their lifetime have at least one person who is considered as a “Crush”…mostly it’s of opposite gender…but now a days, it can be of the same too ;) …in childhood, there’s no such feeling prevalent…but as we grow up…the hormonal upsurge causes attraction…and sooner or later…we start developing a liking for that some special one…


As on my personal experience…I had developed my 1st ever crush during schooling…and till date he remains the best of all though quite a few have been my crushes at different walks of life till date…


I define a “Crush” as that out-of-the ordinary soul who makes you feel…well…can’t be put into words actually…but yes…he/she is different from the rest of the crowd for us…


It’s really funny having a crush…the actions, reactions; all change when that particular person comes in front of us…you tend to behave very consciously when he/she is around you…you try to look at him/her from every possible angle and corner…getting the “eye vitamin”…if it’s just known that he/she is there, is enough to make you feel awkward…all of a sudden your appearance starts mattering to you...also you try to avoid any possible stupidity in front of him/her…then you try getting the attention of him/her but in a good context rather than for foolishness…


If the crush is a teacher…then…being the most shining student of the class is the cliché…may be we are the quite dumb in other lectures…but for that particular session, we try giving our best shot…may be we might be dozing in other hours…but this hour, we are wide awake…I guess guys will agree with this coz this is their particular character…not missing that particular class is the another feat…


These “Crushes” can be quite useful in life…if looked upon it just as a crush…they make us smile…they make us feel elated…that special fondness for the person gives us something good to think upon rather than having an empty mind which as a famous proverb says is a “devil’s workshop”…if a crush is better than what we are, then he/she can be a source of inspiration to us…a crush on a teacher helps in keeping up the attendance as normally it’s a bigtime problem amongst the students…


These special breed of mortals are an important part of life…but they should definitely not be the addiction…fantasizing doesn’t matter though…they should stay as that beautiful part of life which spreads a smile and keeps us beaming…few are those who get their crushes in their life permanently…but largely…they remain somewhere deep down in the heart as a wonderful emotion…forever…

Comments

  1. SidApril 20, 2010 at 9:53 AM

    u had ur first crush during schooling!!!!!!
    now i'd like to know more! :) ;)

    ReplyDelete
  2. Dr Amrita KalantriApril 20, 2010 at 1:11 PM

    when u were talking bout the classroom part, i could think of nothing but last PSM class! ;)

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

It takes a lot to pen things down...
It'll take a minute for you to comment... never deprive us of the pleasure :)

Popular posts from this blog

To the Dreams, To the Eternity, To the HIMALAYAS!!

Image
The World is full of adventure and fun. Every new turn we take get ahead as a new challenge. And yes I was talking about life; though even the rikshawallas may come up that way. As the famous saying goes, “Life’s once, enjoy while you can” . So make sure we have our own share of adventure. The message beeped “ What is your crazy dream?” Giving thought for a while, I responded “To go out unperturbed, no bothering, no works and no thoughts on the roads to the Himalayas” “That wasn’t crazy till you mentioned the Himalayas. If you remember you stay in the centre of India and without being disturbed how can like go off for a long long time.” “Wish I could just go.” “In your dreams…” “Yeah! In my dreams…” was the last I could write at 2 am. The next morning, the alarm kept ticking and my eyes felt heavy to be opened. But then there is life, there’s work. I got into the showers and then into the closet and then out in the cab, rushing away to the hospital. Today ...
Read more

Smittened by LOVE!! :)

Image
Usually surrounded by individuals of all kinds… There is this one kind in them that’s special… As they say ‘Someone, somewhere is made for you.’… That special category… I don’t know how many of us have experienced it; The LOVE, is indeed a special feeling… Unknowingly, unseeingly he came into life… equations matched and things sparkled… At the start it was nothing but friendship … Day by day facts remolded… Shorts “hellos” turned into Long talks… every bit of communication enclosed a meaning… simple meanings swiveled to become essence for life… Staying away from the chats became difficult… Meeting him became ‘most important’ in the to-do list… May be that’s just coz I connect to him… or may be that’s because I  like him… but the most beautiful may be is coz I am driven towards him for the special fondness I have for him… I currently stay in this dwindled phase of life where I am unable to reply any ‘WH’ question related… All I know is that there is some force which is impelling ...
Read more

Love Thy Parents!!!

Image
Plagiarized from a friend’s status on Facebook…”Certain things are best when choreographed naturally”…so true n so genuine…and the best example for this…relation with parents… The day I was born, by default I got my parents…there was no option kept by the Almighty…as in choose between the people…but I guess He knows better who can be comfortable n taken care of by whom…and so this beautiful alliance is a gift to us at birth I guess… MOM n DAD…two best humans on this earth…most lovable n most adorable…every kid has a special place in their heart for these Angels of Solace…and I am no exception to this Golden Rule… They are the inspiration…the way they manage the home and the workplace both together and in sync is something to be looked upon at… They are the motivators…it’s for their sheer support n love that both of us…me n my Bro have been able to be on the road to our dreams… They are the instillers…putting up all good values into us…they have made us able to rise up in lif...
Read more