"I" Theory!!


“I” am a person… “I” has a right to survive… “I” want to win over the World…

All of us live on this “I” theory… Now who doesn’t wish to be an identity himself… What “I” suppose is… Even the Selfless person is Selfish as he does good to others to feel content himself… And that’s the reality bite… Very few people i.e. to count on fingers take this to do something what others wanted from them and what they didn’t… But then they are sad enough to do the thing improper… Some thus get satisfaction from doing the thing wrong…

But there are some… who take this “I” theory so damn seriously that they keep telling others what “they” did… Everything they do…big or small…they just make sure the surrounding is aware of it… Amuses for a while, but irritates later… “Why is he blabbering about self?? Even ‘I’ am something”… Again comes the “I” factor…

“I” relate this theory with Satisfaction…Contentment…Pleasure…Happiness…There might be none who doesn’t want to be satisfied… Even when giving up self for the sake of someone does imply that we are satisfied coz the other person is happy…

 We always don’t receive what our heart desires for… But we have a heart that asks to fight for the right or get the positives of it… The meetings get postponed… We have got some minutes of extra sleep… Fell down off the vehicle… We realize who cares for you and loves you… Reached late for a seminar and we realize that he was boring… Where do we land up with this??? A ‘smile’ on the face…A ‘Thank God’ in the mind… That’s where the “I” in us is satiated…

“I” do things coz “I” feel good about them... “I” don’t do them coz “I” don’t like doing them… At the end what matters is “I”, “Me” and “Myself”…

Comments

  1. AnonymousFebruary 8, 2011 at 11:14 PM

    I must Selflessly agree some of the points in your theory: there were sometimes when my I-factors erupts out in a split second.

    And which appeals is : feeling satisfied coz the other person is happy.

    I should also say that I theory is selflessly universally and selflessly selfish...

    Nice Arti....

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  2. Dr Amrita KalantriFebruary 8, 2011 at 11:22 PM

    first person singular overdose eh?!! :D
    nice!

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